the winner takes it all
The temptation to react to other people can be so strong.
I am most myself when I decide to be who I am, regardless of how other people decide to be.
so when someone is mean to me, unkind, tells lies, I still decide to be who I am.
So I responded calmly.
I do not raise my voice when they shout and wave their arms around. It’s not my way.
I challenged the lie. I state that I found a particular thing unkind.
But I don’t ‘get even’.
or maybe I do? because maybe getting even, or even winning, is not letting that person control who I am, how I behave, or who I become.
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